Family
- grandfather : Was a spice trader who had moved family from India to Zanzibar
- father Rahimtulla Harji Bhanji: Ismaili Muslim; born in Kenya of Indian Khoja Gujarati descent; moved to England at the age of fourteen
- mother Anna Lyna Mary Bhanji: Was the daughter of an English East London garment worker and a father who was believed by the family to have been a Russian or German Jew
- son Thomas Kingsley: Mother, Angela Morant
- daughter Jasmine Kingsley: Mother, Angela Morant
- son Edmund Kingsley: Mother, Alison Sutcliffe
- son Ferdinand Kingsley: Mother, Alison Sutcliffe
Companions
- Kate Townsend: living together since 1993
- wife Alexandra Christmann: German; married in October 2003; separated in 2005, after 15 months of marriage, after pictures of her kissing another lover surfaced on the internet; they divorced in 2006
- wife Daniela Barbosa De Carneiro: Brazilian; 31 years his junior; married Sept. 3, 2007 in Oxfordshire, England
